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Sexual fantasies are part of the normal activities of the body and have a specific function. What are they and what differences there are between men and women.
When it comes to sexuality, sex, pleasure and orgasm, you can easily come to mind fantasies, do not worry, it's normal.
What is the meaning of fantasies? What are they? There are differences in patterns between men and women? Although not the most
sex taboo, many people are ashamed of their sexual fantasies, of what they imagine. Everyone of erotic fantasies, consciously or not. It is not true that women have less than men. The difference, in this, is that men are less modest and speak more freely.
A fantasy is nothing but an imaginary representation of desire, conscious or unconscious.
fantasies should not be seen as a pathology, except in cases where the individual's life is organized around them. In a psychologically balanced individual, an erotic fantasy is to reach the excitation sexual. It is, therefore, a normal body's activities. There are many factors (cultural, social, psychological and "moral") that affect the erotic imagination.
One of the things that distinguishes us from animals is the difference between the way we live our sexuality than intercourse cold aimed exclusively to procreation.
often in fantasy, there are things that you do not have the courage to do and so they imagine. This intimate fantasies all'autoeccitazione door. Everyone has their own memories, desires and dreams, enclosed in a secret dimension, hidden for fear of being judged or criticized. The fantasy is immune from this.
Unplug from the tensions of everyday life and correct some imperfections in the real world: this is what allows the fantasies. As if they were a bridge between dreams and reality, between drives and prohibitions, they provide an escape. Dissatisfaction should not be considered, but an outlet to unload pressure, sometimes very strong, moral and social issues.
Often when a person looks at a person he or she likes, makes use of the imagination. The erotic imagination is more frequent during masturbation, while decreases in intensity increases in sexual arousal and disappears at the moment of orgasm.
There are differences, it seems, quantitative between men and women. The latter, although they are more reluctant to declare it, do not have fantasies less "pushed" or less than men, but have greater powers of imagination, perhaps a legacy from the fact that in the past the "do" was exclusive preserve of the male.
rather qualitative differences can be detected between the sexes.
Professor Dacquino, neurologist, psychiatrist, professor of anthropology at the Pontifical Turin, states that the fundamental difference between the fantasies of men and women is their content: vouyeristiche early in the second and exhibitionist. According to the scholar, the men prefer the fantasy featuring a female universe, those of initiation and the sadistic, marked by so much power that they wanted to be admired. Women prefer in their fantasies, imagine the admiration or the touch of a man, the memories of past experiences, of being desired by more people.
The difference between the fantasies of men and women derives from their emotional differences. A woman who wants to show his love, he says it with words, while the man says gestures. Another difference is the role that emotion. For women it leads to sex, sex for humans is to bring the emotion. After making love, man can feel love and sweet. The woman, however, when she is in love and sweet, may wish to make love.
On the other hand it is known that man has an emotional modesty, there are things difficult for him to say, and the woman, by contrast, has a physical modesty.
female imagery is still filled with a feeling of sweetness, unlike that of man, by nature more active and visual.
There are creative fantasies that allow to enrich the relationship and reawaken sexual desire and those who manage to lower their inhibitions in order to be able to live a full sexuality.
Two questions that are likely to arise spontaneously: "but I have to talk to your partner?", "I have to put them into practice."
The answer to is: it depends! Although it may be easy to talk about the past, the family and experience to partner, not always so easy to uncover hidden desires, just because they can be criticized or misunderstood. Can Perhaps your partner does not share or do not belong. It would be better then keeping them for himself. If, however, may be more exciting for the partner, then you can share.
The answer to the second question is the same as before: it depends! For many, the purpose of fantasy is basically to increase the libido, when they cease to lose their power fantasies excitatory. For others, are just an experience and therefore must be met. In short, always depends on the individual and by common sense, which should never miss.BIBLIOGRAPHY
James Dacquino "What love, "Arnoldo Mondadori
Peter Dally" sexual fantasies. How they affect our lives, "Demeter
