Part of ' article published on the website of Dr. Lazzari of benessere4u.it
"Do not mind if I talk while you turn red" : Has it ever happened to any of you to say these words before you start talking? It can happen during an important conversation, during a job interview or when you are faced with difficult issues and for which we are afraid of being attacked, mocked or judged. In those moments you feel a strong sense that a sudden wave of heat rises up the face. This is usually accompanied by unpleasant p of deep unease, anxiety and often fear. At those times you repeat that nothing succeeds never change and that this will look bad along with the other tried and tested experience for us and for the other.
And so, with fear of blushing and with the discomfort associated with it, that you can end up having to deal with a real problem. We challenge all the friendships for fear of Judgement, the outputs of friends and acquaintances are becoming increasingly rare and there is time to organize a meeting only if warranted by "Protected status" es. the evening, with little lighting, few people very well known, perhaps with a mobile phone always within reach, to divert the gaze of others, when it becomes too awkward. This disorder affects the life of relationships, friendships, and makes it even more difficult to deal with any situation that causes anxiety.
The risk is to isolate themselves, cut themselves and gradually to avoid all situations that may lead us to be the center of the other. It is here that we find the greatest difficulty: the difficulty of managing the impression of being under the direct gaze of others, who judges us for what we are saying, as it appears, for as we move.
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